Bloggers Unite for People with Disabilities: Attitude

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It’s funny, I don’t consider myself disabled– that is, on most days.  Then every now and then, life will knock me upside the head and remind me that I can’t access the world sometimes.

I was born with hearing in the so-called “normal” range.  I know I started losing some hearing when I was in kindergarten, because I remember climbing into bed and asking Dad to repeat the story of Scamp, the scraggly little dog that went on adventures all over town.  All of a sudden, I was missing bits and pieces of the story.  I was outfitted with a single hearing aid at the age of nine, but the contraption often ended up on a shelf after school and disappeared during the summer.  I got by with lipreading and some impressive social bluffing skills.    When I was nineteen, I went from hard of hearing to deaf in an instant– I fell while barefooting and climbed into the boat deaf.

Sometimes it’s hard for people to believe me when I say that becoming deaf was the best thing that ever happened to me.  The bluffing skills went to the wayside and I picked up American Sign Language.  I worked at a Center for Independent Living and met people with disabilities from all over.  The very best thing that I learned was this:  Attitude is everything.

When we have an attitude of acceptance, equality and access, then we see the whole person, instead of just a disability.   Jo Waldron says it best when she says, “Attitude is the worst barrier of all.”

I generally find that most people have an open attitude when they meet me and we have to do a communication dance– I have to figure out how to lipread them and they have to figure out how to slow down and face me.  Once we get that dance coordinated, access usually follows.  The same thing happens with websites– sometimes I will ask for a transcript for a video or captions and folks are usually willing to follow up with some kind of access.  Eventually… someday… I hope for full internet access.  The passage of H.R. 3101 and S. 3304 would enable a step toward this access.

Today, bloggers from all over are uniting for people with disabilities.  Take a look at the posts and join the conversation.  Then take a look at your website and determine if it’s accessible for folks with disabilities.  If you need an accessiblity guru, connect with Glenda Watson Hyatt, she works miracles with her left thumb.

4 Responses to “Bloggers Unite for People with Disabilities: Attitude”

  1. Love this line, “Attitude is the worst barrier of all.”

    See you on Twitter.

  2. I deeply enjoyed this article because I believe attitude is everything, and you said it so beautifully. I’m looking forward to scrolling through all your posts one by one. Very inspiring! Thank you.

    P.S. I’m a new blogger and just starting to build my website so thank you for the accessibility links – I’ll certainly be able to use them. :)

  3. Full accessibility would be wonderful. My son (blind) can access a lot through his screen reading software, but it’s expensive. Next upgrade will mean taking out a loan or asking the Lion’s Club for help.

  4. Well, hello there! I am new to this whole deaf thang and floundering around a bit, I must admit. I have been hearing all of my life, then last December I experienced sudden hearing loss. So now I have no hearing in my left ear. A mild loss in my right ear was also discovered during all of the evals for the SHL episode. While I am absolutely grateful for my remaining hearing, I have found adjusting to life as HoH to be a bit challenging. I kinda came out about my hearing loss on my blog last week ( http://tomatosoupcake.blogspot.com/2010/08/hoh.html ) and am slowly starting to discover the deaf community online as a result- I love my commenters!

    Anyhoo.. I’m looking forward to reading more of your posts!

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