Steak ‘n Shake, The “Other” Side of the Story

It’s amazing to me that a year later, people still remember the Steak ‘n Shake incident where my son and I were denied service at the drive-thru window of the Bolingbrook Steak ‘n Shake.  I still receive comments from time to time, and with the exception of two that were literally nasty comments, I’ve published every one of them.

Carol, a lady who bills herself as the friend of the still-employed trainer, left the following comment recently:

 

As a friend of the SnS manager who didn’t serve you, I just wanted to throw this out there-

Obviously what he did was wrong, since this is America and he works for a corporation and you can’t just not serve people. It would be great if SnS had a better drive thru board to better help assist all types of customers that need extra assistance for whatever reason. I’m sure that’s not in their budget at this time, however.

From his point of view,I believe, the reason he didn’t serve you is because he through you were being very rude in the drive thru. When you work in a drive thru, you get many, many, many rude customers. Sometimes it can really push you close to wanting to snap on someone, as he did you. I believe he told you as you pulled up to the window that “he wasn’t going to not serve you because you were deaf, he was going to not serve you because you were being rude.”

I guess what I’m really getting at is that there is another side of the story out there that doesn’t really get much mention, and this seems like a classic case of a manager dealing with a lot of stress on his shift and snapping on the wrong person. Not the right thing to do by any means, but maybe it really has less to do with deafness than meets the eye.

Dear Carol:

Let’s go over this one more time, shall we?  I pulled up to the drive-through window and when the window opened, I explained that I could not use the speaker because I couldn’t hear and ordered two milkshakes.  I was told to go around again.  The trainer probably figured I just couldn’t hear clearly.  I calmly explained again why I needed to give my order through the window and why going around again wasn’t the solution.  The trainer kept insisting that it was company policy and that I needed to place my order at the speaker. 

Yes, Carol, at that point, I’m sure on the company’s videotape, it must have looked like a rude customer was ripe and ready for an argument.  After all, like every other customer, all I wanted was for the guy to do his job, which was to take my order, fill it, and send me on my merry way.  Instead, I had to explain why an accommodation was needed at the drive-thru window and defend my reasons for not being able to use the speaker.  The trainer had chance after chance to change his method of delivering customer service and fill the order.  Instead, HE chose to threaten the cops, shut the window (not once, but twice) and leave me empty-handed.

Let me remind you that he failed to follow the Steak ‘n Shake corporation’s customer service delivery model.  He had several chances to redeem himself as an employee and satisfy the customer, but he failed to do so.  If the company had a policy in place for customers with disabilities as well as a drive-thru modification, chances are good that my son and I would have drove off that day happily enjoying our milkshakes.

Yes, Carol, there are two sides to every story, but when it comes to discrimination in the drive-thru, this story is pretty straightforward:  My son and I were denied equal right to the same service that customers without disabilities experience in the drive-thru.

Yes, It Is Time for Insurance Coverage for Hearing Aids

There’s a small, passionate group of people in Illinois who are working to get the state of Illinois to pass a bill in the Senate that would provide insurance coverage for hearing aids.

For people of ALL ages.

Not just for children, like many other bills in other states.

If you live in Illinois, this post is just for you.  The time is NOW.  Yes, now–to call your Senators, fax a letter, or send them an email and tell them:  “Please support SB 68 which provides insurance coverage for hearing aids for people of all ages in Illinois.”

That’s all you have to tell them, that one, simple little line.

We have a shot at this.  Senator Ira Silverstein and Senator Jacqueline Collins are sponsoring this bill and they are very supportive of it.  Senator William Haine is the chairperson of the subcommittee and he is hard of hearing.  A group of us went downstate and testified in front of this subcommittee on March 11th.  You can read more about it here:

Chicago Moms Blog: The Time is Now for Hearing Aid Insurance Coverage

Do you feel the same way? 

Then let’s take some action.  Here’s the contact information for the Senators:

Senator Ira Silverstein (Bill sponsor)   isilverstein@senatedem.ilga.gov  217-782-5500

Senator Jacqueline Collins (Bill co-sponsor) :   senatorcollins@sbcglobal.net  217-782-1607

Senator William Haine:  whaine@senatedem.ilga.gov  217-782-5247

Senator Duffy:   dan@senatorduffy.com  217-782-8010
Senator Forby:   gforby@senatedem.ilga.gov  217-782-5509
Senator Hendon:    ihammons@senatedem.ilga.gov 217-782-6252
Senator Burzynski:  senatorbrad@verizon.net 217-782-1977
Senator Munoz:   amunoz@senatedem.ilga.gov  217-782-9415
Senator Syverson:  info@senatordavesyverson.com  217-782-5413
Senator Hayes:   jhayes@sentedem.ilga.gov

All it takes is a small, determined group of citizens to change the world. 

Just like Margaret Mead said.

Hearing Aid Insurance Coverage–Not Just for Children

A small group of dedicated parents and deaf/hard of hearing adults met last year to create a bill that would provide hearing aid coverage to deaf and hard of hearing individuals of all ages.  No other state has successfully passed a bill that would mandate insurance coverage for hearing aids for all ages.  Most of the states with coverage either pass a tax deduction or limit the coverage to children only.

Senate Bill 68 was introduced in the Illinois legislature by Senator Ira Silverstein.  The original bill provided coverage for all ages up to $2,500.  The bill currently has two amendments attached to it that changes the original bill and turns it into a bill providing coverage for children.

See this video that Dennis O’Brien produced that explains more:

I personally do not support the amendments that are attached to this bill.  Here’s why:  I believe that every deaf and hard of hearing individual should have access to hearing aid insurance coverage regardless of age.  The proposed coverage, $2,500 is very reasonable.

One of my friends recently underwent bilateral cochlear implant surgery.  The total bill came to $225,000.  Her insurance company paid every penny of it.  She is happily enjoying the new sounds that she’s learning each day.

My family has ten hearing aids and we have no insurance coverage at all.  Should we choose to pursue cochlear implants, the bill would easily reach over a million dollars.

How many hearing aids would that cover, for the rest of our lives?  The cost does not come anywhere close.

Isn’t it time to provide insurance coverage for hearing aids?

Take just five minutes to call your local Senator and Ira Silverstein ((217) 782-5500) and tell them that you support the original Senate Bill 68 and would like to have it passed without the amendments.

Yes, indeed, the time is NOW to make this happen!